M is for Mental Models. One sign of growing maturity is awareness of our mental models or the lenses through which we see the world. Recognizing our filters, moving towards alignment with the Bible/Truth, and creating systems within our community to do this is vital for healthy, loving growth.

L is for listen. As humans we feel loved when someone deeply listens to us, but most of us don’t have that someone. We can become good listeners which includes both skills and mindset and is a sign of maturity. God calls us to love in this way and will empower us as we make space to encounter him.

K is for Kindle and lots of other wonderful words like kingdom, known, knowledge, key, kin, and knackered. Paul encourages Timothy to kindle afresh his spiritual gift and the call continues to each of us as we step out in faith and grow in Christlikeness.

J is for Joy in the Journey. The spiritual life is a journey in its process but more like an awakening than an accomplishment because the goal is Jesus, and we are already with him. It also is not something we do alone but we need community which can be hard but opens the door for true joy.

I is for Interior. God invites us on an interior journey towards health and freedom so that we can be our true selves in Jesus and love him and others by his grace. This journey can be scary but is so worth it.

H is for Holding. Holding and being held in suffering is vital for comfort and health and a sign of maturity. Also, standing before God with open hands, not holding to things unless God wants us to, needs to be normal for us.

G is for Generosity. Growing in Christlikeness means becoming a generous person. What if I’m not generous? Let’s explore how we can grow in this area and deepen our intimacy with Jesus.

F is for Finite. Our limits are a gift, but the world tells us to keep going, never stop. Allowing God to be infinite and enjoying the gift of his rest is an inviting path but making space for God to guide us into it is a challenge we need to face together.

E is for Enemy. Growing in Christlikeness means becoming the kind of people who love our enemies. It also means knowing who our true enemy is and becoming adept with the weapons of spiritual warfare.

E is for Evangelism. As believers we are all called to be witnesses. For many, evangelism is scary. We can feel like cowards and question our own love for God. Instead, in a place of grace, let’s see God use evangelism to grow us in Christlikeness. If you aren’t sharing your faith, don’t learn techniques, fall more in love with Jesus.

D is for Deconstruct. Construction - Deconstruction - Reconstruction is a normal part of growing in Christlikeness.

During this season of celebration may you receive this blessing and may the year ahead find you intimately connecting with Jesus and his people.

C is for curiosity. Is it good or bad? The Bible takes a nuanced approach. Let’s dive into the ambivalent world of curiosity and spiritual formation.

B is for birds. As we follow Jesus’ exhortation and consider the birds we recognize God’s good provision, change our perspective, and rest in his sovereignty.

A is for Attachment and your formation in Christ will be built on the security of your attachments so seek to understand this concept and then strengthen your attachment to God and your neighbor. This is the path to loving your enemies.

Changing our circumstances can lessen our anxiety but only until the next thing happens (staircase) OR we can change the roots inside us and become non-anxious people (escalator).

“I'm going like the Energizer bunny from the moment my feet hit the floor in the morning to the time my head hits the pillow at night." Does this resonate with you?

Many of us avoid solitude and silence for a reason. When we go to those places, we feel uncomfortable.

Jesus invites us to himself. He takes care of us. He forgives and cleanses and heals. He shines his light and reveals what needs to be dealt with and then he deals with it.